ShowUp ShowOut!!
Its getting close to that time! I hope you ladies AND gents get a chance to join us at this lovely event ShowUpShowOut will be hosting!
Head to ShowUpShowOut.com to purchase tickets and read about the event further.
Natural Night Out NYC!
Its getting close to that time! I hope you ladies AND gents get a chance to join us at this lovely event ShowUpShowOut will be hosting!
Head to ShowUpShowOut.com to purchase tickets and read about the event further.
Funky Nail Design
Check out my nails today!!
I just had a little African-esque inspiration this week and decided to do a little bit of a funky design on my nails!
I used Essie's Tart Deco and Mamba along with a white nail art design polish. I can do a tutorial on this look if any one is interested. Let me know!!
NYC Event: Show Up Show Out
Hey Ladies!
I wanted to take the time to share a bit of information about this awesome event that I will be happening later this summer!
I hope those of you in the NY/CT/PA area get a chance to come out and visit this event, it will be a wonderful time!
I look forward to seeing all of you pretty ladies and handsome men 'Show Up and Show Out' on July 28th!
May's Favorites
Hey Gals!
1. Bright Colored Tailored Capri's
2. Freeman: Sugar Scrub
3. Essie Nail Polish in Tangerine and in Peach Daquiri
4. Shea Moisture Thickening Mist with Yucca
5. Shea butter seal on top of Thickening Mist with Yucca
What were your favorite or go-to products for May?
Tips to Effectively Seal Your Ends
1. Use thicker oils or butters such as Jamaican Castor oil or Shea butter
2. After thoroughly saturated your ends with water make sure to squeeze the excess water from your ends
3. Use twice the coverage of oils on your ends when sealing
4. Once you have sealed your ends Stop, Drop and Roll, lol, I mean Protect, Oil and Roll
5. Use twice the coverage of oils on your ends when sealing
6. Once you have sealed your ends Stop, Drop and Roll, lol, I mean Protect, Oil and Roll
8. Tuck your ends away
9. Become a “Hair Whisperer” for your ends
10. Make sure your ends are healthy
New York Times Mini-Documentary
I really love that she has taken it upon herself to do this mini-documentary. She describes some of the themes of the movement and she explains how it is really personal reasons behind why women have begun to transition.
I think it is really important that people understand that it is an acceptance of ourselves as we were born that is behind this movement and that it is a beautiful thing that is happening.
I remember that defining moment when I just wanted so badly to have a relaxer so that my hair could look nice. Keep in mind, I didn't want it to be straightened because my hair was not nice. I wanted it done because my mother did NOT know how to do my hair. And that is not in the sense that she didn't know the styles and tactics I know now, that is in the sense that she didn't even know how to braid it. My hair was often times pushed back into a bushy, frizzy dry, blown out ponytail that was never even styled nicely for school photos.
Take a peek at the documentary below and see what Zina has to say. Shes a wonderful person and when I met her, her accent was lovely and her excitement was refreshing!
BGLH's 7 Money-Wasting Natural Hair Mistakes
1. Becoming a product junkie
2. Jumping on bandwagons
3. Getting salon trims too frequently
4. Searching for the ever elusive “holy grail” curl definition product
5. Getting salon styles that only last a few days
6. Heat damage
7. Overpriced natural hair events
Curly Frizzies
Since its raining today in New York, I thought a post about frizziness would be appropriate...
What is porosity?
Do oils moisturize damaged, frizzy curls?
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What does Cece say?
There are many ways to help manage frizzy hair. I have listed three1) Typically I would suggest twisting your hair up during those days so that your twists can absorb that extra moisture in the air and use it to its benefit, rather than its detriment (i.e crazy tangles in loose expanding hair).
2) Along with twisting I would recommend using scarves to style up your hair up and keep it protected while also looking fashionable
3) Sealants: The concept of sealing your hair demands that you moisturize your hair and seal the cuticle off with an Oil or even a product with a silicone in it.
Until Tomorrow....
How to pH Balance your hair!

Happy rinsing!!!
6 Tips for Perfect Blowdrying
- Do not blow dry sopping wet hair! Blow drying hair that is dripping wet will lead to dry, damaged hair. Carefully towel dry hair in sections using a microfiber towel prior to blow drying. When towel drying, be sure to “squeeze” not rub to avoid breakage and unnecessary tangles.
- Use a heat protectant! I always use a heat protectant when thermal styling, and I swear by Aveda Brilliant Damage Control. Good heat protectants have proteins that bind to your hair shaft that acts as a barrier to prevent heat damage. + Watch your heat setting! I normally blow dry on low heat with a high power setting. Kinky hair has a tendency to be a little on the drier side, so blow drying on high heat should really be a no-no.
- Blow dry hair until 75% dry , then sit under a dryer to dry the remainder of your hair. I prefer this method versus blow drying my hair until it’s 100% dry because it makes for much softer hair. Another plus is that you cut down on the amount of direct heat that is applied to your hair. This technique is also beneficial to those have been less than successful at air drying. Blow drying first gives your hair that “smooth” appearance, and drying under a hooded dryer the remainder of the way gives your hair the soft “air dried” feeling [minus the crunch or kink factors
- Hold the blow dryer 5-6 inches away from your hair when blow drying. Again, the key here is to avoid heat damage. Holding the dryer too close to your hair can also lead to issues with your scalp as well [dry, flaking]. + Detangle thoroughly before attempting to blow dry! Hair should be soft, smooth, and free of tangles prior to blow drying. This is the time to break out that heavy-duty seamless comb [I recommend Mason Pearson], and Fermodyl 619 if your hair is prone to tangles.
Use An Old T-Shirt To Dry Curly Hair
Instead of a towel, use an old t-shirt to dry your hair. Towels can create a scrubbing effect on your hair, removing product and damaging curl. The smoother texture of a t-shirt will prevent frizz and help to maintain your healthy locks.
Getting Back on the Wagon
It has been a long while. In that long while I have.... gotten one new job, then switched to another new job, moved to my first apartment and gotten a new computer due to the suckiness of my last one. That's a lot to be doing over the course of a few months.
I look forward to posting again and writing more about natural hair and all of those awesome amazing things!!!
I hope your New Years and Holidays were fantastic!!
With natural love,
Hair & Scalp: 5 Essential Oils That Make Your Life Easier
This article was written by Ms. B Sapphire (@sincerebeaute)Hi Lovelies,
Going natural has definitely opened my eyes to new ways of treating my hair. For instance, I have eczema/Sebhorrheic dermatitis on my scalp and since I was trying new natural products, I wanted to get away from my steroid topical crèmes as well. I just thought to myself – there has to be a better way. So through research I have found different types of essential oils, extracts and treatments that I could use for my itchy, dry scalp. I have read how many naturals and relaxed hair lovelies have had problems with dry and itchy scalps and I have read that some people say you shouldn’t use oils at all because it will clog your pores. That last part is certainly NOT true. If you’re excessive with the amount of oils you put on your scalp, of course you’re going to look like a “grease monkey” and have heavy, weighed down hair. It all comes down to moderation and application for each individual person. This is just my 2 cents (well… actually silver dollar lol) of course. Below I have 5 essential oils/extracts that I use or have researched to help inform you all of the potentials for your hair and scalp.
Tea Tree - Tea tree oil is one of the best cleansing essential oils. It is extremely effective in protecting the skin from infection, as an antiseptic, anti-bacterial, anti-viral, and anti-fungal essential oil. It also has anti-inflammatory properties.
Clary Sage - Also an anti-inflammatory, this essential oil minimizes stress and anxiety, which are common triggers of eczema.
Frankincense - This is a wonderful healing essential oil; it has cleansing, antiseptic
Lavendar - Lavender is probably the most pertinent eczema essential oil. It has antibacterial, anti-inflammatory, calming, and normalizing properties. It also supports immune health, and is extremely beneficial for alleviating stress.
Avocado Oil - it is an ideal ingredient for people with dehydrated, sun or climate damaged skin, as it is an extremely good moisturizing and nourishing compound, assisting in the regeneration and rejuvenation of the skin. It also helps to relieve the dryness and itching of psoriasis and eczema.It is often used for clients with dry or mature skins, or people suffering from eczema or psoriasis, and is very useful when treating sun or climate damaged skin that is dehydrated and undernourished, as it is said to help with regenerating the skin and softening the tissue.
So, about every week or so I’ll add 5 more essential oils, extracts or treatments for the scalp and hair. And even if you don’t have my scalp conditions or dry, itchy scalp, you can try these oils out because it can promote healthy hair growth. Hope this information helps with promoting health hair and scalp and most importantly of all – a healthy you
Always explore and discover,
B. Sapphire
Brazilian Keratin Treatment
Hey Naturalistas!
I wanted to share some more information about straightening treatments that are not permanent but will help you get your hair straighter easier with a bit of curl loosening and defining during the period the treatments lasts.
It's official name would be Brazilian Keratin Treatment (BKT), which is a curl relaxer. Some also call it Brazilian Hair Straightening or Brazilian Blowout. It first came to the United States a few years ago. It has slowly gained more popularity since then with hairstylists in the US.
Some of you have heard of Japanese hair straightening which was hot a few years ago, it is called Thermal Reconditioning. This is a natural cornstarch-based hair relaxing system which makes use of a more gentle form of ammonium thyoglycolate, which is free of the traditional relaxing waxes or lyes along with special straightening irons. However, ammonium thyoglycolate and sodium hydroxide (standard relaxers) are still harsh chemicals. Most relaxers and straighteners have those chemicals in them.
The key part of BKT is that it is not a strong chemical process. It utilizes Keratin, which is the same protein our hair is made from, of course it is a different keratin, but nonetheless it is a similar protein. I would equate it to the difference between the hormones women naturally produce and the hormones taken orally for birth control. It changes how our body operates bit, but it is hormones we generally already produce.
PROS: Aside from the gentleness of the active ingredient, Keratin, there are other pros to this treatment. Another key part of this treatment is that it does not permanently straighten your hair as relaxers do. It also works better and longer on color treated hair or chemically processed. Another plus is that there is no demarcation line between the treated hair and the new growth. Additionally, the process is also a treatment that helps your hair because the keratin fits around the cortex of your hair and strengthens it, just as any keratin treatment does. The only difference is that this one is sealed into your hair.
CONS: As my brother would say, "if its too good to be true, its not true," so here are the bad sides to this treatment. The formula contains formaldehyde which is a known carcinogen that will irritate the eyes and lungs.Make sure your stylist is highly practiced and trained in this process, you will need a room with good ventilation and protect your face and eyes when they start to blow out your hair to keep from getting any on your face and in your eyes. There are some cases where people break out into rashes or hives the next day from exposure to the chemicals in rooms without proper ventilation. It has been noted that the process contains levels of formaldehyde that is against OSHA regulations. OSHA designates that .2ppm of formaldehyde is acceptable, while brazilian treatments have 3ppm and up. The FDA will be investigating this in the coming months [Source: ALLURE October]
Prices: Prices for this treatment start around maybe $180 but can range up to $300 and $400, especially for the more curly haired, coarse haired women. You know they always jack up the price when we walk in the salon...smh.
Time: the process lasts for about 2 hours and it keeps your hair noticeablly more manageable and easier to straighten for about 6 weeks to a few months (maybe 3 or 4). It also lasts longer on chemically processed hair or color treated hair. The life of the treatment also depends on how often the hair is washed.

Here is some information on someone who has done a blowout and she even has some video footage of it being put in and such:
NaturallyCurly's Brazilian Blowout Experience
I would love to one day try this treatment. It seems it also works on women with "coarser" more afro like hair, like mine. I heard my grandmother talking about it yesterday mentioning it to my aunt so I figured it was time to post what I know about it for other people who may be interested. I am mostly curious just to see what it does and so I can say I've tried it and give other people an idea of what it can do. I find with being natural and trying to show people that there are options when going natural, you need proof like photo

Additional tips for the process:
-Use a sulfate-free shampoo on your hair at all times.
-You should wear a mask and close your eyes during the blowdry with the paddle brush after the product has been applied.
-Do not use hair clips!!
-Do not use hair bands or bobby pins during the 48 hours you hair must stay straight during!!
-Wait four days before going into a pool or ocean after the treatment.
-You cannot use sprays, gels or mousses for the first four days.
-For the first few days, do not exercise or sweat.
Source: www.sickoffrizz.com and hair stylist who applied my friends treatment
5 Tips to Heal Dry Hair
1. Rinse with cold water. As much as you love your steamy showers, super hot temps can fry your hair. Cold water seals in the moisture you need.
2. Let loose while sleeping. Remove all elastics, clips, bobby pins, etc. Let your curls be free!
3.Take a break from heat tools. Give your hair a day off every now and then from the curling iron, blow dryer and flat iron.
4. Deep condition. This is no joke—deep condition as much as possible. You will truly see a difference in your hair’s health factor.
5. Work with second day hair. Washing your hair every day will really dry out your curls. Instead, discover how to work with second-day hair. Maybe it’s wearing a headband. What about half-up, half-down? Or perhaps using a curl revitalizing spray. Figure out what works for you, on a night when you don’t have a hot date, and you’ll be much happier with your curls."
Dandruff- what is it really caused by?
Suffer from scalp flakiness...aka dandruff?? Yea, you're not alone. This embarrassing, persistent condition affects 50 percent of people in the U.S. every year. To explain why it occurs and how to get rid of it here is an article I found about what causes dandruff:
""The basic facts
Dandruff is caused by a microscopic yeast called Malassezia that lives on everyone's scalp and feeds off the oil, or sebum, that keeps skin hydrated. Normally, as dead skin cells are shed, this yeast gets washed off in the shower or brushed away. Under certain conditions, however, it grows out of control, irritating your scalp and making it red and itchy. In response, your skin cells begin to reproduce at an accelerated rate; as they build up, they turn into flakes.
What to look for:
* Genetics--If your mom or dad has dandruff, there's a strong chance you will too.
* An oily scalp--This causes the yeast to multiply.
* High indoor temperatures--When you're in a warm environment, your scalp secretes more oil.
* Stress, illness, or a hormonal imbalance--All three of these factors may make you less resistant to fighting off the accumulation of flake-producing yeast.
Simple solutions
* Use a medicated shampoo These cleansers typically contain the anti-yeast ingredient zinc pyrithione. Find it in Head & Shoulders Dry Scalp Care Shampoo and Conditioner ($5 each; at drugstores); both products deposit tiny yeast-destroying particles of the active ingredient on the scalp, where they remain until you're able to shampoo again. *** CECE NOTE: You can purchase zinc pyrithione cream and mix that with your conditioner wash or your shampoo- just to get the good effects of the medication and skip the bad parts of the head & shoulders***
* Use stylers sparingly Gels, mousses, and pomades can trap sebum and exacerbate flaking.
* Minimize scalp oil If your hair still looks greasy despite daily cleansing, spritz on Biolage Scalptherapie Cooling Mint Oil Control Treatment ($16; biolage.com for salons), a spray with sebum-absorbing glycerin. ***CECE NOTE: rosemary essential oil, a nettle leaf tea rinse, lemongrass essential oil, elder berry cream-powder treatment or even a tea tree oil infused cream application will also help with these... all of these can be made at home.***
EXPERT STRATEGY "It's a myth that dandruff is caused by a dry scalp," says Zoe Draelos, M.D. "It's the result of a buildup of yeast, and it needs to be treated with a medicated shampoo at least twice a week."
* The bottom line The scalp sheds skin cells daily, so a bit of flaking is inevitable. But if you notice lots of flakes on your clothing or find yourself constantly itching, take action. All that scratching will aggravate your condition and could cause split ends.""
Happy de-flaking!!
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